Today I finish my all chours, I call everyone to lunch and start to serve….Suddenly my husband’s phone rang up …So he request me to mix his food. Suddenly my son came and kiss my cheeks and smile cutely. Surprisingly I asked him the reason for this lovely gift….He replied
Mumma you do everything for us and we take privilege of it. Now you are making food easy for papa as you always do for me. But you have not served for self yet. So I kissed you to make you feel that you are my beat mumma…..
His these words touched my heart and make that moment very precious for me. He is only 6 yrs old and he was thinking so deep. For a while I thought that really I was doing something different…….
My dear son…….Thanks for your Love towards me. I want to let you know that…I was not special and different then other’s. I was an ordinary person like all butyou made me diffrent, special and extraordinary and precious fir yourself . You made me realized that I can spend whole night without sleeping with you, and I can cook many of time in a day as per your demand…..I am strong enough to escape you from bad people…You made me extra careful, you taught me better time management.
I did not care you alone. Your father made everything better for you . Your Father help me to become more capable for being more caring for you.
Me and you father do all efforts to provide you all your needs. But that was you , who make us realized that how much efforts we need to make you successful and good person in life.
You ever help us for being and remain always good in life.
My son what we did and do for you is not our favour on you . This is our duty to make you capable to meet this world and to make you strong enough .It was our duty to provide you healthy and happy atmosphere.
Still you feel that we favour you then don’t worry…….After a time period you will be in same stage where you will be a provider and you will be blessed with an Angel….Then it will be your duty to be a role models
Now I just want to say you my friends don’t treat your child as a owner…Treat them like a gardner….As he seed a plant take Care of it and only help him grow well give him a direction and do his all efforts to grow it well ……Such as , water you child direct your child help him to grow well …..You can give them a strength as they can dream but we can not design their dreams. Our parents give us life for us as well we are to give our child and they are to serve their…….
Happiness is not a specific moment. Lot of people chase happiness . They try to find moment to be happy. Like they are waiting that If it hapend I will be happy . But when that moment come at their life they again say that I am ok with that but it is not like as I planned.
If I ask you that what makes you happy then you will start with a long list. As- if I get a lot of time to sleep then i will be happy. OR if I get a long holiday at abroad , then Iwill be happy.
But question is , What really make us happy? and Is it permanent………
Answer is – NO… THERE IS NOTHING WHICH CAN MAKE US HAPPY PERMANENTLLY
Then what is needed for being happy every moment
To explain well , I would like to share my life experience here
4 years ago i join a company as an consultant trainer. I was happy with that . one day one of my senior suggest me to go for permanent job. my friends and my family also suggest me same. well i start my journey with new dream and after some tries I got one at my city.I was feeling very good and flying almost in sky. Like everyone one I was feeling dreams come true and decide to touch high. I was filled with new energy and enjoying my job. I thought that now journey has been started and now I will be more happy. But after sometime I felt that it has occupied my all time. As now I didn’t have time for my family and for me. It make me depressed that now I can’t do what I love to do. Well life was going on. But suddenly I lost my job.I was searching for new but incidentally I come in contact with my family doctor as my son was becoming ill frequently. He suggested to be with him as he was feeling alonenesss. So I quite working life and paid full attention to my son . But still I was not happy. I was feeling unlucky myself. Days were passing like that. Suddenly I happened to meet my old friend and told her everything that how sad I was. She was surprised and remind me that how kind of person I was. She told me that happiness is not a specific moment. Just accept your present and do preparation about your future. You will become happy automatically. After her left, I sat alone and think, yes she was right . I used to be happy every moment but now I have lost me and my self. I reminded that when I was in job I was not happy also, and wishing for time for me and family. Now I have a time but still I am not happy Friends I found the reason and sharing here with you all. I was used to be happy every moment , because I never set any parameters for being happy. I used to accept every moment as whatever is going on, is great….Wow… Today I experienced something new. I never took burden of any change and it made me more strong and bold. Friends actually problem is that we ever try to reject our present and wish to live our future presently. We forget that whatever we are doing now it will decide our future. So make sure , you are not waisting your present in worrying for future. Remember …..We become sad when we become unsatisfied and assume self useless. Just accept your present and do your 100%towards your dream. Don’t compair yourself then other’s. Your are not there but you will be more ahead then other’s. They have done also their efforts . Now this your turn to create new path and new destination to be followed by other’s. I have learned with my experience that everyone has a different road to get their dream. You are different one and you are supposed to get different. So enjoy your all of surroundings, friends family and near dear as they help you support you, not necessary at your way, they can support you by another way , as sometimes critic also motivate us. Enjoy with everyone but be with your self